For a very long time, the orchestration of relationships have been one-sided, but what really happens when a girl likes a guy, and he has no idea?
The idea of the guy making the first move was born out of the notion that men are the ones who have the initial interest. Also, there’s a somewhat mysoginistic culture that paints men as the only doers, regarding their female counterparts as prizes for their conquests.
But now, times have changed. Many women are becoming doers and aren’t afraid of expressing their feelings and opinions, and are now letting the world know what they want. So, if you still feel like a relationship is meant to happen, while you sit and wait, you might just carry last, because if you want something, you have to go for it.
The first step to getting the guy you like is opening your mouth and starting a conversation. Shoot your shot, but sometimes you may miss — you should know that. That might hurt badly, but you can’t get what you want if you don’t try.
By the way, I think it’s time for women to know how toasting the opposite sex feels like😁.