Why Men Cheat…

Everybody cheats, but these days it seems like it’s the guys that have been getting the heat for doing it. So I decided to ask a few fellas why they do it.

From what I could gather, some girls push themselves on guys knowing fully well that they are in a relationship. But that is not a strong excuse, yeah?

But something struck me when one of my guys said “When you meet the one that gets you, I mean, fits you like a puzzle, cheating would be scary” He also mentioned that “What makes you a man is deciding not to do something, not because you can’t, but because of the consequences it might bring”.

But why do you get into a relationship when the connection is not there? We can blame a little of that on society that always finds a way of making single people feel empty, like something is wrong.

Also, sex has been made into some sort of prize that gets people validation when they’re getting a lot of it.

By the way, these reasons also affect women too. Lack of connection leads to infidelity, so stick to your tribe and people you feel at peace with, and don’t start breaking your own heart by going around in circles.

About Banji Coker 155 Articles
Banji Coker is a Nigerian poet, writer and spoken word artist. He is the author of two poetry compilations, Just seventeen and October feelings.

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