Since the dawn of time, people have tried to come up with the perfect equation, the perfect thing to look out for when deciding the ‘one’. After listening to James Arthur’s ‘If we can get through this, we can get through anything’ in his ‘You’ album, I think I have figured it out.
First, staying through a toxic relationship is nothing noble. Though he called the girl a terrible human, he also stated they believed in each other, so I don’t think there is anything toxic about their relationship.
At this time of our lives, people who are in love decide to stay apart, and for whatever reason, they break up and suffer in the distance. Sometimes, that might not be the case as people go through situations that shake the foundation of their relationship. It might be that there is a problem between you and your partner, it might be something either of you is facing outside the relationship. But if you can think deep down -“if we can get through this, we can get through anything”
So if you both eventually get through it, hold that person tight, but if you don’t, at least you’d know you tried.