Friendzoning Without Consent.

Okay I know the Topic is a little bit over board, but let’s all be guided.

I know not every girl you like wants to date you, so y’all too should understand that not everyone that’s interested in you will settle with being your friend.

Don’t get me wrong, there are girls you want in your life not minding the label they carry. You are fine with being friends or more.

Also understand that guys see some girls and want to be their friends and nothing more. We are not starved of friendship, so don’t be out handling it like some consolation prize.

So the next time you reject a guy, don’t force the friendship card, shit is corny as hell. Let him take the L in peace and don’t get mad if he is not responding.

Friendship is hard work, it’s expensive and exhausting. Nobody wants to add extra baggage, you will know if y’all are friendship material way before the finale. And if he stays away, it says a lot about how y’all vibed. It was probably one-sided, he did more of the giving ( not material, I mean emotional and support shit) and wasn’t getting anything in return. Your friendship is probably a liability and that’s not a bad thing. It’s just what it is.

Finally, if anyone calls me a nice guy, I’d probably be going to hell, period!!

About Banji Coker 148 Articles
Banji Coker is a Nigerian poet, writer and spoken word artist. He is the author of two poetry compilations, Just seventeen and October feelings.

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