Don’t Get It Twisted, Your Virginity Is Not A Gift

So, I was having a conversation with a girl who was visibly upset about something a boy she engages in sexual activities with did, and one thing she said that stuck with me was “and I gave him my virginity”.

It was at this point I had to tell her “Hold up! Your virginity is not something you give and it’s not something that is received”. You are not doing anyone a favor by having sex with them, you both are engaging in an act that is going to benefit you both. Like Summer Walker said, “Girls need love, too”. I think this idea that females have about giving guys sex especially when they are virgins just set them up for heart breaks, sorry to break it to you, but there is nothing special about you being a virgin, and you being a virgin doesn’t benefit a guy in any way. Actually, it’s a disadvantage .

So y’all should get off that sense of entitlement and enjoy sex just for sex and stop pulling that virginity card because it is 2019 and no one cares about that!

About Banji Coker 157 Articles
Banji Coker is a Nigerian poet, writer and spoken word artist. He is the author of two poetry compilations, Just seventeen and October feelings.

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